Hey lovelies check out these lovely nude shades that i came across and thought i would share with you all. Nude looks are fresh,classy and timeless. Let me know which look is your type.
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So this passed week Word press notified me that i made four years of blogging and i couldn’t be more excited. I mean it has been a challenging yet fun journey and i am still learning a lot,persevering and not giving up any time soon. I would like to take this opportunity to thank you all my Subscribers…THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE and FOR YOUR SUPPORT. I do not take it for granted. There are times when i feel like giving up but i keep going. Seeing that i will be making 500 subscribers is huge(though i would have been having thrice more if i were consistent). We still have a long way to go so fasten your seat belt.
Last week i went out for a staff team building Dinner at Westin Hotel Dubai and i had a lot of Fun. For me, any chance to go out is an excuse to dress and i did just that on this dinner
I wore my stripped jumpsuit that i had recently thrifted paired it with my red heels and re chain bag and finished off the look with metallic bangle Earrings and gold watch. Felt super classy in this look, red and stripes worked all together and gave me stylish vibes. I don’t know about you but Fashion gives me life. There is away dressing up in heels boosts you confidence while cat walking around the place lol
After a thorough study of my self, i’ve come to a realization that i am an extrovert introvert, i can not say am ambivert because my being alone is involuntary (i have no close friends in this city to fill in the gap).
Let me explain maybe you may correct me if am wrong;
Whenever am by my self i get depressed craving for Company and because of this, i normally choose to go out in quest for friendships. It is on rare occasions that i enjoy my own comapany. So this is a clear reason i am not an introvert.
I hate being alone, i tend to find last minute plans to hang out solo in new places but when i reach there, i tend to feel so uncomfortable,restless because all eyes are on me, i get anxious wondering what people are thinking about me ” why is this girl out here all by her Self?” And in Dubai it’s worse since Africans are stereotyped in a certain way,it gets more Awkward.
When i meet new people for the first time, i tend to be shy and anxious but when i get to know them and get comfortable, i can be very talkative and fun to be around with.
I also tend to go into self pity mood when i see cliques having fun and am all by my self…eventually i get up and go back home because i can’t handle the self pity. When reach i reach home and take a shower i feel relieved.
I Don’t make the first move whenever i meet potential friends-i always wait for them to speak first and from their, i tend to open up. Because of this, i loose out on an opportunity to connect with like minded people. On rare occasions, i can make the first move by saying Hi(only when i get a smiling,friendly look from a potential friend). This is the same situation even on when i choose to find friends online, i don’t make the first move. Overall I think it is because of the fear of Rejection that i tend to sit back and wait.
I do have a friends back in Uganda and the close friends i have in Dubai stay far away from me plus the work shifts makes it hard for us to meet often hence my quest for new friendships. I must say, it is really hard to make friends as an adult.
I feel like Pride and fear of Rejection is the reason as to why am not a full extrovert but am hopeful that one day i will overcome my fears.
Going out solo can be tough on some days and good on other days. I have made new friends,networked,enjoyed my own company, i’ve visited many beautiful places in this city. Bottom line, it’s all about being confident and doing you. I can not put my life on hold just because My Husband or Family,close friends here live Miles & hours apart from me(working Shift jobs), my life has to go on…i will continue going out alone until i find a group of friends i feel comfortable to hang with. What people think of me is their business not mine.
In conclusion, i can not say am 100% extrovert or 100% introvert because like i’ve explained above,makes me 50, 50 of both. My advice to you my Lovelies is….just be your self and be proud of who God made you to be and the right people who are meant to be in your life will come along. Do not let any body change who God created you to be. It’s not worth faking a personality to fit in…be you and Conquer the world.
Are you an introvert or Extrovert or Ambivert/Extrovert Introvert like me? Let me know in the comments section below and let me know how you survive day in day out.
You trust them with all your heart, you feel protected,loved and all the butterflies in your tummy and then one day….they are a different person you have never met!! they are the reason for your tears and pain…reason you promise to never love again because you thought He was different from the Rest.
Was it all True in the First place? I mean all the promises they made,never to put their hands on you…never to be the reason for your pain. Were they all lies! Your wondering if it was all genuine…the happiness they brought in your life,was it pure?
No matter how wrong you might have been…did He have the right to treat you like the trash across the bridge on the 6th street? Respect is for all…love does not produce Hate…love does not produce Pain and neither should you tolerate it. Are you going to tolerate it? How sure are you that if you gave them a second change…they will change?!
Forgiveness is beneficial for you but bringing them back in your life is an option which you must turn down. I am just a stranger whispering in your Ears…let it go. Walk away while you still can and speak up
Pain is real but so is hope…put your head High and conquer the world…break the Silence.
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I’ve realized that one can go crazy if they let everything get to them. Sometimes you got to let some issues slide. Don’t let a bad day at work get to you, don’t let a dormant loveless relationship/marriage take away your Joy. Do not let a co-worker or that roommate who neither talks to you nor likes you, give you sleepless nights. Your not defined by Situations or by what people think about you. You are who God created you to be… a child of God.
It is a bad day not a bad life. When you allow negativity to enter your heart, it will stress you, give you anxiety,depression and self doubt.
My advise for anyone going through life challenges is to pay a deaf ear to whatever is going wrong right now and rather concentrate on what is going great for you…the fact that you have a job and your able to put bread on your table, a beautiful family, gift of life is a blessing enough to stay motivated with Hope that whatever is happening right now is just temporary and soon you will smile. Concentrate on the blessings in your life rather than your short comings.
Always remember that the same God who saw you through that situation you never thought you will overcome, He is still the same God now and He needs you to UP your Faith Game in Him. Though the storm is there, He is still in the boat, call him in Prayer and He will surely Come through for you.
So the other day, i went out for window shopping and ice cream at the Baskin Robbins and i Rocked this look. This look is simple yet stylish. Wore my white biker shorts,sleeveless floral pink top, carried my tiny cute white purse(window shopped lol) and finished off the look with my black fur sandles.
What do you think about this look? Let me know in the comments section.
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Last weekend i spent the day at the Barasti beach where i had an amazing relaxing moment by my self.
About my beach outfit…i wore a floral romper and sandals, this look gave me hot girl summer vibes, simple but stylish. later i rocked my swimsuit and had a blast at both the beach waters and the pool.
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So the other day i went out at a Fresh Juices shop next to KFC in the neighborhood for some fresh watermelon juice in this hot summer. While at it, took some pics with the help of my new tripod that i bought recently, check out the tripod here, i also took some videos of this whole look. Check out the video and photos below
I loved how the colors worked together to bring out an effortlessly yet comfy stylish look. I wore my swim suit and my culottes pants and finished off the look with my tote bag and nude ballerina flats.
Let me know what you think about this look by leaving me a comment below.