Colossians 3:23-23 Says; whatever you do,work at it with all your heart, as working for the lord and not for human masters,since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving.
Hey lovelies, i was nominated for this challenge by the awesome Atim Mercy. Thank you dear for the nomination. Check out her blog Asap.
The rules are:
1. Thank the blogger who nominated you.
2. Post a quote or three each day.
3. Nominate three bloggers each day.
It goes on for three days.
So today’s three quotes is about EXPECTIONS.
Are you the type who always put high expectations in people? Its high time you saved your heart from constant pain.
I have come to a realisation that in order to avoid being hurt, It is always good to keep in mind that everytime you do something for someone, do not expect them to return the favor but rather do help out because you want to, it makes you feel good when you do good for others and most of all you know that your reward comes from God.
When it comes to friendships we tend to give it our best expecting the other to do the same, i mean it is common sense….but to your suprise you realise that you have been used!!!! And before you know it…she is cliquing with your worst enemies not even saying Hi anymore.
Oh so last February you expected Bae to suprise you with a special candle light valentines dinner with a bottle of red wine and a banquet of roses at your dream restaurant but hmmmm….you did not receive even a bar of chocolate from him and now your suffocating your tiny pillow with tears meditating if he really loves and cares about you anymore!
Expectations,Expections,Expectations!!! The root cause of all Pain.
Stop expecting people to treat you right all the time,just because you secured for him a seat when he was late for that morning lectures does not guarantee him doing the same….do it because helping others is involuntary,its your nature, your in-built character and not because you expect the same treatment in return.
All am saying is that,Love your spouse,friends,siblings the same way you would want them to love you back but without expecting them to do the same for you … look up to God to change their hearts to learn to love you with the same measure even beyond.
Can’t wait to read yours quotes dolls.