Ethan Second Birthday

Hello Lovelies

It has been a minute..how have you been?

Back to me, it has been a roller coster in my life but all in all God is still on the throne.

Last monday we celebrated my son’s second birthday at his granny’s. Below are the highlights of the day

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Fashion inspiration: Friday Outfit Ideas

Hey lovelies

Friday is here and i thought i would share with you some cool outfits to inspire your looks today.

Fridays are all about Brunch,shopping, hanging out with friends for drinks…the list is endless.

Image Source: pinterest

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Maxi Dress Ootd

Hey lovelies,

Do you enjoy wearing maxi dresses like i do? Not only because maxi dresses save the day on those days when you can’t find what to wear or no time to put an outfit together but also because of the elegancy that comes with rocking one. Did i say that maxi dresses make you look taller for the short girls like me lol.

But seriously maxi dresses are so versatile, in that you can dress them any way you feel please, you can dress them up or down depends on where you going to or how you feel on that particular day.

I wore this animal print dress on a chillax sunday evening and it did not disappoint, i felt simple yet stylish. Had no issues running around with my kids.

Check out this youtube video here showing you this beautiful dress and how i vibed in it. let me know how you would style it in the comments section.

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Someone you really Need

It is so important that you surround yourself with people who see you from inside out not just surface level. For the outside fades, changes.

You need someone who is going to be your emotional support, someone who is going to be your rock. Someone you can run to when your heart is heavy.

Sometimes when a relationship is new, the other person treats you like a prince or princess but after sometime, that ceases to be the case. They get comfortable.

How i wish we all find people who will treat us like we matter everyday, they practice our love languages everyday not just when it’s convenient for them.

I don’t know about you but i still believe God created that perfect someone for you and He/she is out there. That someone whose treatment towards you is consistent. Someone whose words matches His/Her actions.

I believe your soulmate, your best friend is out there…do you believe?

Xoxo

Angel mbeks

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Ankara outfit Ideas to inspire you

If your a fan of African print also popularly known as Ankara, then this post belongs to you.

You Can wear an Ankara in any fashion of your choice that is to say you can rock it as a dress,shorts,pants, or even as a top with denim jenims or any style that suits your body type and taste.

Ankara can be worn to any occasion. You can rock it to the office, church,Brunch,Birthdays to name but a few. You can as well dress them up or down depending on where your going and how you feel.

Ankara does not discriminate, the young and old Black or white can all rock them perfectly.

The Nigerians popularized this African print, i mean from celberities to normal people all can slay this print in Nigeria and you can not help but being inspired.

I wore my Ankara dress here as a Sunday look.

Below i’ve shared different designs of Ankara outfit to inspire you.

Source: Google images

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What to do when you feel lonely

COVID-19 has significantly changed our way of life, and has increased the amount of people who feel lonely. With many people in lock-down, and schools either cancelling in-class options or lowering the amount of people who can be there at once, it can be very isolating.

Whether you are a student, or you live alone, or maybe you just feel lonely in the place you are in, here are some ways to curb your loneliness during these unusual times:

  • Find Others to Talk To

It may seem obvious, but finding others to talk to can really help your loneliness. If you don’t like phone calls, or are unable to meet up with people in person, try an online chat, forum, or website. Bonus points if you make a connection with someone who you can talk to continuously over the course of a few weeks. Having the ability to stay in contact with someone and follow up with them about what you had already talked about can really ground you and make you feel less lonely.

  • Plan Solo Dates

It may sound awkward, but plan something special for yourself. Maybe you really just want to have a picnic. You go have that picnic! It doesn’t require you to have more people. Make it special for yourself and pack a book and some fruit and a nice blanket. It’s literally planning a special date where you are the one who is being treated and it can decrease your feelings of loneliness because you are still treating yourself. 

  • Read

Reading can be a useful tool to avoid the outside word. It could be fiction, non-fiction, graphic novel, whatever! Immersing yourself in a good book can be extremely useful in spending long periods of time NOT thinking about being lonely. Books are a perfect example of something you can do and enjoy alone, but not feel lonely doing. Plus, it gives you something to talk about the next time you see or hear from someone. 

  • Plan a Self-Care Night

Similar to planning a solo date, this is just for you. Bring out those face masks, pull out the nail polish, and pour that bubble bath. Tonight is for you and you alone. Bring a book in the bath with you and you can cross two things off this list! When you are feeling lonely, it can be very easy to stop taking care of yourself. Maybe you live alone, and you don’t feel like showering every day, or treating yourself. Put in that time for yourself and you will definitely feel better. You don’t need someone else to treat you when you know exactly what your needs are. 

  • Make Your Bed

Something so small and self-explanatory. Every morning when you wake up, make that bed of yours. Feeling lonely can make you dwell in the comfort of your bed, so you want to make sure that it is as clean as possible for the next time you escape under the covers. 

  • Stay Active

You will read it everywhere, but make sure that you are moving your body at least a little bit everyday. There is yoga, there is a park calling your name saying “come walk here”, stretch! Any little thing can help with your mental state and can curb your loneliness, especially if you are in nature and are really appreciating the world around you. Set aside at least 30 minutes to dance to your favorite pump up jam, or whatever you want to do. Just keep that heart rate up and you are golden!

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Post Originally posted here: https://www.friendmatch.com/blog/what-to-do-when-you-feel-lonely.html

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HAPPY NEW MONTH: MAY

Hey lovelies, a new month is here and i just want to wish everyone a great month of May full of God’s protection and Happiness.

This month is big for me because it is on the 30th May that my Son Ethan came into this world. So i already started planning His birthday celebration, i just can’t wait.

What plans do you have for this month? Share in the comments section below.

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Link to Angel Mbeks Podcast

Hello lovelies,

Excited to let you know that Angel Mbeks blog will now have a podcast. Got to know of this opportunity from WordPress as they recommended Anchor as a simple podcast platform to use. So yes we have a podcast, i can not wait to share more interesting topics through my voice with y’all.

Link to my podcast: anchor.fm/angella-mbekeka

My podcast is a available on all the below sites

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Angel Mbeks PodCast

Hello lovelies,

Excited to let you know that Angel Mbeks blog will now have a podcast. Got to know of this opportunity from WordPress as they recommended Anchor as a simple podcast platform to use. So yes we have a podcast, i can not wait to share more interesting topics through my voice with y’all.

Link to my podcast: anchor.fm/angella-mbekeka

My podcast is a available on all the below sites

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Our Easter Photoshoot

After taking lunch, me and my little ones went to the compound and took some family photos for memories sake. My little girl decided to wear my wig lol, she looked cute though.

. “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” – 2 Corinthians 5:17

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Happy Easter

Hello lovelies!

Happy Easter, Jesus is risen from the dead we shall merry,sing and shout for Joy

This is the time to enjoy with the family and make lasting memories.

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SAD NEWS: The Archbishop of the Archdiocese of Kampala, Dr Cyprian Kizito Lwanga Dead

The Archbishop of the Archdiocese of Kampala, Dr Cyprian Kizito Lwanga has died, the Catholic Church has said. He was reportedly found dead in his house this morning.
“With deep sorrow, I hereby inform you that our beloved Shepherd, the Archibishop of Kampala Archdiocese, His Grace Dr Cyprian Kizito Lwanga has been called to the House of the Lord. The Archbishop was found dead in his room this morning. We pray that the Almighty and Merciful God may grant him eternal rest,” said Fr Pius Male Ssentumbwe in a statement released on Saturday afternoon.
“Further arrangements will be communicated later,” he added.
Dr Lwanga was last seen in public yesterday (April 2, 2021) as he said mass at Rubaga Catholic church where he led the homily of Good Friday celebrations.
In December last year, the Archbishop was in the spotlight for calling for postponement of January 2021 elections.
Addressing journalists in Kampala, Dr Lwanga who appeared with some members of the Uganda Joint Christian Council (UJCC) which he chaired suggested that the presidential elections be postponed for three years to contain the spread of coronavirus.

Education 
Lwanga attended Kyabakadde Primary School. He entered Nyenga Seminary in 1964. Between 1972 and 1974, he studied at Katigondo National Major Seminary, in present-day Kalungu District. He then studied Theology at Ggaba National Seminary, in Kampala. In 1979, he joined the University of Clermont-Ferrand in France, were he studied administration and languages, with particular emphasis on administration. Later, he studied at Pontifical University of the Holy Cross in Rome, where in 1994, he earned a doctorate in Canon Law.

On August 19, 2006, Dr Lwanga was appointed the third Archbishop of the Archdiocese of Kampala and was installed as the third Archbishop of Kampala on September 30, 2006 at Rubaga Cathedral, succeeding Cardinal Emmanuel Wamala, who resigned.

May His soul Rest in Peace

Source: Daily monitor

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Venting is Therapy

Everyone needs that friend they can vent to about Life challenges. Life can get tough, challenges are part of life but whats important is how you go through those life challenges. You need a support systems that is going to keep you grounded,to keep you sane.

I do not agree with the notion of keeping everything to yourself because you can burst if you do not speak up.

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Being a mother sometimes can get a toll on every mom and so it is healthy for every mom to have mom friends they can relate to, talk about whatever is bothering them. Choosing to keep it all in will only leave you depressed.

Same applies to marriage, it is ok to have married friends you can share marriage problems with as long as you do not exceed the boundary(don’t say too much lol). Sometimes marriage can be hard and you feel like you can no longer take it anymore. you reach an extent where communication goes out of the window so is happiness and you feel like nothing seems to work out anymore.Having marriage friends who are going through the same phase of life as you can help you put some things in perspective. They can help you put all your doubts,worries to bed.

I have a close friend i always vent to about motherhood, life issues and i always feel better after words. Like i can go to her with this problem that i see as a mountain in my eyes but after chatting, it turns out all i was fussing about wasn’t a thing at all. Do not be all in your head, talk about what is bothering you to someone you trust. Like the saying goes “problem shared is problem half solved.

Apart from the drama, i love watching sisterhood TV shows like the housewives,basketball wives to name but a few. Seeing these ladies holding each other down through tough times is girlfriends goals

In conclusion, make sure your venting to the right person, it should be someone who you really trust less they will spill all your business to whoever wants to hear. So vent to someone who is close to you not anybody.

What’s your take on venting? I would like to hear your opinion on this so hit my comment section below.

Xoxo

Angel mbeks

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HOW TO BE ALWAYS HAPPY IN LIFE.

  1. Always remember that there is nobody on this earth that does not have problems. You are not the only one that has problems.
  2. Challenges is part of life. It is only a dead man that has no challenges.
  3. There is no problem that has no solution. There are solutions to the pains you are passing through.
  4. The way you picture yourself in your mind can affect your happiness. Picture yourself as a valuable and beautiful person. Avoid low self esteem and inferiority complex.
  5. Do not mind about what people say about you. Some people are sadists. They can just say something’s just to make you feel sad.
  6. Make friends with reasonable people who make you happy. Do not make friends with people who make jest of you or laugh at you over your challenges.
  7. At your leisure time, keep yourself busy with your favorite hobbies like reading , Learning, etc.
  8. Do not allow anyone to intimidate you with money and material things. A poor man today can become rich tomorrow. Change is constant.
  9. No matter what you are passing through today, do not give up. As long as there is life, there is hope.
  10. Be very prayerful. Pray without ceasing. Prayer is a catalyst that can speed up your blessings to come to you on time.
  11. Be courageous to go for what you want. Life is all about risk. If you don’t take a risk, you will not get the desires of your heart. Source: Facebook
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The Family that Slays

Hey lovelies!

Last weekend i tried to do dress up with my kids and we took photos and several snap videos. I felt so good about my self. There is power in taking care of your body and dress up in an outfit that makes you feel chic.

Having a 9 month old who has been sick lately plus staying at my in-Laws for sometime now in a town where i have no friends turned me into homebody for months, hence making it hard for me to stay stylish. I mean my routine is waking up and taking care of my baby and my toddler so i could throw on anything comfy that could enable me breastfeed better but not to look stylish.

So the fact that i tried to dress up in this look was a huge step for me this year. I mean life does not have a Pause button so you gotta live your life where you are no matter what. Living your life is all about Self love. What i mean is, dress to kill for the sitting room or your compound lol. With this Covid 19 in the picture we have to find ways to enjoy life regardless.

In this look, i wore a free wide armed orange top,grey bike shorts and sealed off the look with my floral flats. This look screamed effortless stylish mom. Dressed my kids in stylish casual outfits and indeed they slayed.

What do you think about our looks. Let me know in the comments section below.

Xoxo

Angel Mbeks

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5 ways on How to make New Friends as an Adult

Hello Lovelies

I know many of us are struggling with making new friends as adults but i got you some tips which i believe will help if you practiced them.

Oh before i forget, i do have a youtube video too talking about the same topic check it out

1. Get out of the House

There is no way you going to meet new people if all you do is sit back and watch TV from morning to sunset. You need to put yourself out there .

2. Engage in Activities you enjoy.

I enjoy live music so often times even if i have no one to with, that does not stop me from buying that ticket. By the time the concert is over, i’ve made a few friends. Connections are easily made when you have similar activies. Go for that movie now

3.Smile,Look Approachable.

Do not take your self too seriously, loosen up and smile so that you make it easy for the potential friend to find you.

4. Give genuine Complements

Develop a culture of giving complements to strangers too. This is another conservation starter.For example ‘nice purse’ ‘cute floral dress’ you will thank me later

5. Ask for contact and follow up

Many times we wait for the other person to ask for the contacts but that shouldn’t be the case. I mean what if they end up not asking then you will loose out on a potential friend. Be in charge and Ask for their contacts and follow up a week later.

Xoxo

Angel Mbeks

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Maternity Look Book

Hey lovelies here is my pregnancy lookbook. I really enjoy styling these looks, so many memories. My little one will make 3 months this coming saturday and i can not wait to show him to y’all.

Check out the Youtube Look Book video here

Being pregnant does not mean you should let your self go, stop dressing stylish No. When you dress well, you feel good. This look book made me feel beautiful. Which is your favorite look, let me know in the comments section below.

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Spring/Summer Vibes: Chic Beach outfits ideas

Hey  lovelies!

I know Corona Virus is leaving us anxious but Hey, God got us hence we should not fear. All we got to do is to take the precautionary measures i.e use sanitizer, wear masks and avoid congested places.

On a lighter note, since Summer is kicking in soon, i thought i would uplift your moods by sharing with y’all these chic looks that you can rock to the Beach and Slay. Have a look.

photo credit: StyleCaster.com

 

These looks are such a breathe of Fresh Air and i can not wait to incorporate them in my Spring/ summer beach collection. Are you hitting the beach in  your area already or staying indoors is your only option as well?

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Shoe Trend: pointy open toe stiletto high-heels

Hey lovelies, hope your all doing great!

So I’ve been seeing this nice shoe all over Instagram worn by Celebrities and Fashionistas and i must say i can not wait to get my Hands on it, i mean have you seen the Scout pointy Sandal heel?

It is a pointed shoe shaped heel with multiple straps across the foot and ankle, looks so High end stylish. It comes in different colors and it can be worn all seasons.

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What do you think of this shoe trend, let me know in the comments section below.

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Girls Day out at the Mall Of Emirates Dubai

Hey lovelies!

The other day me and my girl friend we hanged out together at the Mall of Emirates Food Court and ate at the Chow-kings Chinese outlet, their food is amazing. Later we went shopping at H&M and Victoria Secret…i mean it was 50% sale hello.

About our looks… i wore denim on denim paired with my snake skin ballet flats accessorized with LV tote bag. Trophie wore a high waist dark skinny jeans, white tank too and sleeveless coat, finished off the look with black pumps and grey cross bag. The looks were simple but stylish. It was a fun day. Due to busy schedules we rarely meet so it was a day well spent.

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Some Pain Never Heals

You trust them with all your heart, you feel protected,loved and all the butterflies in your tummy and then one day….they are a different person you have never met!! they are the reason for your tears and pain…reason you promise to never love again because you thought He was different from the Rest.

Was it all True in the First place? I mean all the promises they made,never to put their hands on you…never to be the reason for your pain. Were they all lies! Your wondering if it was all genuine…the happiness they brought in your life,was it pure?

No matter how wrong you might have been…did He have the right to treat you like the trash across the bridge on the 6th street? Respect is for all…love does not produce Hate…love does not produce Pain and neither should you tolerate it. Are you going to tolerate it? How sure are you that if you gave them a second chance…they will change?!

Forgiveness is beneficial for you but bringing them back in your life is an option which you must turn down. I am just a stranger whispering in your Ears…let it go. Walk away while you still can and speak up

Pain is real but so is hope…put your head High and conquer the world…break the Silence.

Photo Credit: Google images

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Best Dressed at the Emmys Awards.

Here are my best looks of the just concluded Emmys Awards.

Nash

Mandy Moore

Kendall

Zendaya

Viola Davis

Kerry washington

Taraji P Henson

Lavarne Cox

Check out the youtube video belew and watch me review the same looks. Don’t forget to like,comment and subscribe.

These ladies looked amazing, they fashionably nailed the hell out of these looks. Let me know in the comments section below

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VENICE FILM FESTIVAL 2019 BEST LOOKS

Celebrities did not come to play at the italian Film festival, they went over the top stylish and glamorous. Check out my best dressed below

Martha Hunt

Elsa Hosk

Juliet & Catherine

Scarlet Johnson

Jasmine Sanders

Kat Graham

Barbara Palvin

Midisin Rian

Sara Sermpio

Photo Credit: Getty Images

Which looks has swept you off your feet? Lets discuss in the comments section below.

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Trends we love:Neon x Snake Skin print

Hello Lovelies!

Have you noticed that everywhere on the gram, Snake skin print is trending everywhere? So many celebrities are rocking this trend, what are you waiting for lol? Bravo Housewives below Phaedra Parks(former Rhoa housewife) and Marlo Hampton looking gorgeous in this trend

Phaedra Parks living her Best life in this Neon Snake Print free dress, she looks

amazing

Marlo Hampton from the Real Housewives of Atlanta looking snatched in this edgy snake skin neon leggings and sleeveless top

What do you think of this trend? Would you rock it?

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VMA AWARDS BEST DRESSED

An MTV Video Music Award (commonly abbreviated as a VMA) is an award presented by the cable channel MTV to honor the best in the music video medium. Originally conceived as an alternative to the Grammy Awards (in the video category), the annual MTV Video Music Awards ceremony has often been called the “Super Bowl for youth”, an acknowledgment of the VMA ceremony’s ability to draw millions of youth from teens to 20-somethings each year.

The 2019 MTV Video Music Awards was held on August 26, 2019, at the Prudential Center in Newark, being the first VMA ceremony to be held in New Jersey.[1][2] Sebastian Maniscalco hosted the 36th annual ceremony.[3] Ariana Grande, Taylor Swift, and Billie Eilish were the most awarded with three each. Missy Elliott became the first female rapper to win the Michael Jackson Video Vanguard Award.[4] The show was broadcast on a variety of Viacom-owned networks, as well as their respective websites, and apps through TV Everywhere authentication.[5]

Below are were my best dressed artists

Camilla

Hailee

Keke

Lil Nas

Heidi

Photo Credit: Vanity Affair watch more looks on their site here

All these looks were just wow, the details,fitting were exception. List is endless but i would like to know who your best dressed celebrities were. Comment below.

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Happy 2nd Birthday To My Daughter

Hey lovelies!

I am beyond excited to say that my Lovely princess turned two years old. Words can not express how how happy i am that my little girl is growing into a beautiful princess. And to celebrate her two milestone we did a Birthday photoshoot and i am so in-love with these photos and how beautiful my angel looks. It is every mother’s joy to see their Child growing up fit and health and to God be the glory.

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Outfit of the Day

Hey lovelies!

So the other day, i went out for window shopping and ice cream at the Baskin Robbins and i Rocked this look. This look is simple yet stylish. Wore my white biker shorts,sleeveless floral pink top, carried my tiny cute white purse(window shopped lol) and finished off the look with my black fur sandles.

What do you think about this look? Let me know in the comments section.

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Beach Day: Romper x Swim Suit

Hey lovelies!

Last weekend i spent the day at the Barasti beach where i had an amazing relaxing moment by my self.

About my beach outfit…i wore a floral romper and sandals, this look gave me hot girl summer vibes, simple but stylish. later i rocked my swimsuit and had a blast at both the beach waters and the pool.

Watch the youtube video below and subscribe.

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Swim suit x Culottes Pants

So the other day i went out at a Fresh Juices shop next to KFC in the neighborhood for some fresh watermelon juice in this hot summer. While at it, took some pics with the help of my new tripod that i bought recently, check out the tripod here, i also took some videos of this whole look. Check out the video and photos below

I loved how the colors worked together to bring out an effortlessly yet comfy stylish look. I wore my swim suit and my culottes pants and finished off the look with my tote bag and nude ballerina flats.

Let me know what you think about this look by leaving me a comment below.

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Ootd: Dashiki x Biker Shorts

Hey lovelies!

Today’s outfit of the day i am rocking my dashiki dress top and black biker shorts, fur sandals. This was an effortless yes chic and comfortable look that i slayed while hanging around in the park sipping on my ice cold coke in this Hot summer.

Check out the youtube video of this look below

What do you think of this look. Let me know in the comments section and please don’t forget to subscribe to my youtube channel

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My Birthday Weekend(27/06/2019)

Hey Lovelies!

On 27th June was my birthday and i celebrated it in Abu dhabi with hubby. Had a great weekend, we stayed in a hotel suite,had dinner and the next day we went to Ferrari world(will share this in the next post). My birthday weekend was well spent. Check out the photos below

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Maternity Outfit Ideas

Hello Lovelies!

Looking snatched while pregnant can be challenging as finding something stylish yet comfortable is a tag of war. But your girl got you, I’ve come up with a look book of maternity outfits you can rock and look fabulous whether at the office, brunch you name it.

From free, smocked dresses to bodycon, pencil skirts, Tees and denim pants, I’m sure there is an outfit that has inspired your wardrobe. Check them out below.

Let me know which look stood out the most for you in the comments section below

Xoxo

Angel Mbeks

Ootd: Smocked Dress

Hello Lovelies

It’s been a minute, hope your well

Back to me i am 7 months pregnant with my third baby, beyond excited i can not wait to meet my baby and mostly for my kids to my their new sibling.

Today’s post i decided to make a come back with a maternity outfit of the day that i’ve worn today at work. This look consist of a smocked mid dress and my silver ballerina flats. This looks makes me feel girly and so comfortable with my bump.

You can rock this look anywhere like work,brunch or even to a dinner date.

What do you think of this look. Let me know in the comments section below.

xoxo

Monday Outfit inspiration

Hello Lovelies

I hope you had a great Weekend.

Monday is here and if your wondering what to wear, your girl got you covered. Check out thesee looks to inspire you this morning  or throughout the week

I just want to Travel

lately my heart has been leaning on onto my desire to travel the world

But how can that be possible with an expired pasport and an empty bank account? does that mean that i shouldn’t dream on? I don’t think so.

God, i want to travel so bad…take amazing pictures,live in the moment enjoying the views and sceneries.

I know i do not have to give up dreaming….somehow somewhere dreams do come true

My Kenyan blogger friend offered to Host me when i decide to Visit Kenya.. yes she did! and today i’ve been seriously thinking about it…i mean Kenya is such a beautiful country and i can not wait to renew my pasport,get my finances together and off i go.

Do you enjoy travelling? what’s limiting you? Let’s talk in the comments section

xoxo

Angel Mbeks

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